A few days ago, my kids started getting possessed by evil
spirits.
I know this sounds absurd… I don’t technically believe in
witches, witchcraft or “African Black Magic” as they have been calling it. That
didn’t stop the last few days from freaking the hell out of me!
Sunday afternoon—my kids say something bad happens every
Sunday at our hostel—two girls collapsed outside of the girls’ block
(dormitory). The sisters started seeing people who they knew but could not
name, screaming, writhing, kicking… Apparently they were possessed by a spell.
Honestly, I wasn’t paying much attention because I thought it was a bunch of
crap and would soon resolve itself.
After a few hours, the girls had indeed recovered and all
was fine at the hostel again. But after dinner, a bunch of other kids “got it.”
I was having our Sunday night family dinner with the volunteers of Tses, and
when some of them went home they told me that there was something big going on
at our eating hall. When I got there, there were about 10 learners lying on the
floor of the hall, screaming and writhing, with a bunch of different elders and
pastors there to help and pray for them.
I, with some of the other teachers and community members,
was there from about 9 until after 3am – sitting with them in the hostel,
holding down kids who were literally trying to get up and run away, restraining
kids who were trying to claw at each other. Most of the children affected were
girls, but there were also a few boys. Apparently this kind of thing is more
common with girls and it is also more common around times of stress, like exam
time. I know there are probably millions of psychological explanations for
everything that happened – but in the end, it is children who are in a great
deal of physical and emotional pain, and regardless of why you think it
happens, it definitely, definitely sucks and is really hard to watch!!
As we were in the hall that night, there were obviously
times of more and less panic. Sometimes the kids were quiet and we sat around
drinking tea, and sometimes they were literally punching and kicking at us! We
had some help from a few other learners, as well as company from those who were
unwilling to go sleep in the blocks that night.
All of the affected learners slept eventually, so I assumed
it was all over. But Monday morning at school, more kids started going wild!
More learners were affected during class and many of the same ones from Sunday
were still having issues. The story goes that there were a few “main” learners
who were being witched by a jealous lady who worked at the hostel, and those
few were the ones who suffered the most and for the longest time.
Monday afternoon, the kids were a mess. They were all scared
of the hostel/blocks/kitchen/food/matrons, and a few were still “possessed.” We
tried to send these ones home to their families ASAP but some of them stay far
away so we sent them to other families in Tses, just to separate them (so they
couldn’t build off of each other anymore). It was so strange to go around
carrying some of my learners who were unconscious, when they are normally very
strong individuals; holding some when they thought they were being choked, etc.
A different way of seeing them, I guess. When I wasn’t busy there, I was going
around to all of the different groups of kids around the hostel, trying to
comfort them as much as I could. Which wasn’t much, but at least some of my
normal visitors came over to visit my house (as well as another group of the
boys who I normally think are very independent but were clearly terrified).
Monday evening, we had what must be called an exorcism. We
had leaders from all the different churches in our hostel’s eating hall along
with community members, all of the hostel matrons, most of the teachers and all
of the kids from the hostel. There were all of the “affected” kids (including a
few new ones) in the back, writhing; and all of the learners in the front,
praying and being prayed for. After what seemed like hours of prayers, the
pastors prayed for every child individually (it took forever!) and sent them
back into the blocks. They were obviously terrified to go alone, but I think it
helped some of them to overcome that fear. At this point, the pastors “got out
the demons” from the affected children. The pastors prayed, touched the
children, yelled at them, spit holy water in their mouths and faces.
Eventually, they got every child to say that they believe in God and Jesus as
our savior. (I’m really glad I understand Afrikaans, since the entire night was
not conducted in English!)
Almost the whole time, there were weird things going on.
Girls rolling around in the back, clawing at each other, kicking. A bunch of
them truly seemed like they were possessed by something strange. One boy wasn’t
allowed to sit with the others (he had been possessed but was now feeling
better) so he sat in back with me. He seemed fine, just weak and scared, and
kept leaning on me or holding my hand or something. It was really cute but also
really sad to see him this way, because he’s normally a really rambunctious
kid!
By today, most of the weird stuff seems to have settled
down. There were a few odd cases throughout the week, and our school is now
really empty because most of the hostel learners have left for their families
for the week. Last night, we had another church service to try to keep the kids
on the right track.
Coming from my culture at home, this stuff all seems weird.
And I know that probably most people reading this will agree that it is all a
load of crap! But guys.. honestly, I don’t know what to say about all of this.
Do I believe in witches? Not really. Being possessed? Not really. But
obviously, something was psychologically and physically affecting my kids, for
a long period of time… and no matter what you think it was, it was really sad
and really hard for the kids. Everyone at my school is exhausted because nobody
has been sleeping (even though I wasn’t personally too scared, I had about 10
kids sleep in my house for a few nights because they were afraid of the blocks…
and getting woken up in the middle of the night because they were scared).
Whatever is going on—even if it is some kind of mass hysteria (or “exam-phobia”
as the regional education director just called it), it doesn’t matter much to
me. The effect is not good either way!
Maybe you could try some exercises that help with panic attacks and hysteria
ReplyDeleteDBT - http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/mindfulness_exercises.html
EDMR - http://www.youtube.com/user/jyotijoyful?feature=watch
Tapping - http://www.tapping.com/
Wow Sachi! This must have come as a real huge culture shock!
ReplyDeleteHi, I can help answer some of the questions. It's actually a teaching that I have, presented by an American pastor, Benny Hinn. Here's the link, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJVl4gQK1XA. The name of the video is, Benny Hinn Deliverance from Demons Session 1 of 20. I hope you can seat through it, (it's about 2 hours long :)). I learned a lot from it. It will answer your questions about the students being possessed. Tell me what you think afterwards.
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